Are you facing a difficult time this holiday season? Know someone who is? It’s important to realize that we are allowed to grieve, but we are also allowed to laugh at the awkwardness of new situations, and to rely on God for peace and joy even in the hard times. Here are 5 ideas on what to do when you are facing a hard holiday…
1. Write about it.
Write a tribute to the one you’ve lost. Writing a personal tribute in your favorite journal can help you clarify what you are feeling and thinking. Why not share this tribute with family members, along with a framed photo of your loved one?
2. Give thanks.
Thank God for His many blessings in your life. Focus on having a heart of gratefulness by making a list of things you are thankful for, and remind yourself of those thoughts throughout the day. If you have time, you could even sit down and write some cards to loved ones expressing your gratefulness for them in your life.
3. Find the funny.
Find your favorite funny movie and spend an evening among friends, with pizza, popcorn, cupcakes and maybe even some good laughs. It might not be the Thanksgiving you are used to – but it might be exactly what you need.
4. Give back.
Maybe this is the year you volunteer at the soup kitchen, or donate to your local food pantry. You could even fill a tray with homemade goodies and pass them out to nearby nursing homes, fire departments, police stations, schools and more!
5. Nurture your relationships.
Reach out to your family and friends – even if only for a brief coffee date. While it might be easy to isolate yourself, sometimes it’s better to be surrounded by those who truly care for you.
